I was once told that if your world is collapsing or if life is not going your way, don't panic. You should not be worried or scared. You should be happy- because something better is about to occur. At first, I did not understand, but when positive changes started to occur and hope rose in my body, I understood. Now, I am the one who gives this advice to others.
When your world is incongruent with what you have envisioned or if you are in crisis, don't panic. Just as the soil needs to be turned for fresh flowers to grow beautifully, so does your life. Negativity always brings positivity with it if you believe in yourself. Think positively and set goals so that you have a vision of what you really want. Don't think of the past or of things not relevant to your success.
Your world is not going down- it is getting ready for a great bloom and great things in your life. Downfalls and mishaps are things to learn from, not to run from. Evaluate your situation and look forward in the direction of positivity. If you fall, it is not a setback, but a wake-up call. Improve your attitude and look forward.
Start by stating affirmations, meditations, writing down goals and being around people who lift you up. If you only focus on the negative, then negativity will manifest. Think of the positive ways to get out of your situation, and if you believe and organize your mind, then you will create the world you want to live in. Remember, you are in control. It is not others that make your life or success. It is you and you alone. You don't need approval or happiness from others, you need to look inside yourself. Unless you are true to yourself, you cannot have a true vision of what you want in life.
All you have to do is BELIEVE, DREAM and then you will ACHIEVE.